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Wednesday, February 2

aarrrrrrrrggggg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have mentioned our new home renovation projects earlier in the blog. It's fun and exciting to make changes and make it 'our home'. However, the kitchen job is turning into a test of my sanity, patience and my marriage. Let me try to explain as best I can;

First of all, we decided when we put an offer in on the house that we would change the closet in the hall and make room in our kitchen for the fridge. We knew that this would be our first project, but I didn't realize how soon Garnet was ready to start. He took a hammer and a saw to the wall the first day we moved in!! (first picture) We didn't even have posession yet! For those who know Garnet - it's no surprise. I wasn't even surprised, I was barely even upset, just sort of shaking my head.

Then we got someone in to 'clean up' Garnet's first mess and do a nice job. This contractor turned out to be a pain in the ...everything! He would show up hours late - or not at all. And he was the slowest worker I've ever seen. One day he was supposed to be there at 1 and showed up at 7 pm and wanted to work! I politely said 'no, I don't think so thank you'. I was sick for a week and he stayed til 10 pm 3 nights in a row while I was coughing and in desperate need of my bed. Needless to say he was not a joy to have around. The job that was supposed to be done before Christmas was finally over in the middle of January.

Then this wonderful contractor - who quoted us 4 days work and $700 for the job - showed up with a bill for almost $1300. Over a grand in just labour!! (labour?!?! yeah, cause he worked so hard!) So I was really polite again, my temper was controlled quite easily on this one (I'm oozing with sarcasm here)

The worst part of this whole ordeal is that a week after all of this is finally over with and I can drink my coffee without drywall chunks in it - my husband has another idea. He saw someone else's unit who ripped the whole wall out between the kitchen and the hallway...and he's set on doing that here. I'm all for the openness, and more space - I love the idea - except for one LITTLE thing....... We just went through that whole nightmare and all that money to have the wall built!!!!!!! I love my husband more than anything else in the world, he keeps my life interesting and exciting....but I don't get this one!

One of Garnet's professor's from Custom's Training in Rigaud, Quebec met me at the Graduation - after living with and teaching him for 2 months. She grabbed my hand and kissed me and said; "There is a special place in heaven for you dear!!"

I am going to muster up all the patience I have in my body and love him with every ounce of love in me....and then after all this kitchen stuff is over I'm going on a nice long trip!!!!!!

xo J


the first hole...

the new closet

the finished job (before paint) Posted by Hello

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

lol! you married him! :)
- the observing (and laughing) sister!

Jessi said...

yeah, yeah, yeah....can't wait til you get one!!! you just wait baby!

Anonymous said...

though it is terribly hard some days...ummm i think I can wait...lol :)

Michelle said...

i'm also having a hard time with contractors.. we want to remodel our kitchen entirely.. rip everything out, take down walls, etc. but do you think i could find a contractor that will 1) call me back or 2) show up for appointments????? NOPE! i'm still looking. i'm just glad that i found out about these guys before we hired them.

Jessi said...

good luck michelle....we have found that good contractors are hard to come by!!! (or just absolutely impossible is more like it;)

Anonymous said...

....tough luck....it sounds like your husband is a real piece of work...it must be hard to live with him. I'm sure you deserve much better. If I were you I would divorce him and marry me!!! Just let me know. We'll fly to Vegas and get married at a taco stand drive thru.....I'm free anytime. I'm 6'2", buff and am presently an executive with a large firm in the U.S....

Anonymous said...

Hey Jess!! Go for the Taco stand guy! you guys sound perfect for each other...I mean as long as he doesn't spend over $20 on food!!...lol:)...thanks for the night! It was fun! Love you!

Anonymous said...

...only Hilsy Bilsy Katrilsy spends $17.99 plus taxes for a grand total of $20.69 at Apple Bees......besides tacos are cheaper in Vegas....

For all you men seeking marriage, let me give you a few words of advice ---->>> $17.99 on the first date is a little much and its all downhill from there.....the expenses only continue to climb...pretty soon the well runs dry and then...well...you know thew rest.

Seriosuly Hil, who eats $18.00 worth of food in one sitting??!!!!!!

HA HA HA

Anonymous said...

I would really like to know your total there Mr. Cheap!! Besides your wife helped me!!!....And plus spending a little extra on your FAVOURITE Sister-in-law doesn't hurt!! Complain all you want...I know you still love having me around!! :)

Jessi said...
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Jessi said...

PLEASE CHILDREN ENOUGH FIGHTING ON MY BLOG!

my husband and sister really love each other....deep down. and as for the taco stand guy - well, *someone* thinks they are a comedian....any ideas who, garnet????

Anonymous said...

...if you guys keep it up I WILL hijack this blog site.....Hilsy, your only my favorite sister-in-law (more like a horse with the way you eat) because your my ONLY!!!.....

...and Jess as for you - why is it we talk more on blog comments pages than we do at home....